Thursday, July 15, 2010

boys will be boys


A dear friend of mine had a recent break up... All I can say is he lost his mind. But I did find some really funny sympathy cards, check out the link, too funny, I sent this one to her, I love it!
http://www.foxyblunt.com/product/with_deepest_sympathy.aspx

Also today is her birthday, Happy Birthday and a toast to you and that this year will be the best yet! xo

Saturday, July 10, 2010

New Socks


I love new socks.... The problem with socks though is that as they are washed and shrink in sizes, the sizes are not that far apart. I have three little girls and they get mixed up, oldest with middle and middle with youngest even though we buy different style socks for each kiddo, SO, our solution has been for many years to label them... We have done this since we were in Germany and my amazing friend's husband had a theory to label socks and number them. It is GREAT and I LOVE organization... So, I have done this over the years, great system, HOWEVER< I watched the Jerry Seinfeld show "The Marriage Ref" and they had a guy on there who numbered and did Left and Right, and they totally laughed about it... I think it's funny too, but the fact is, it works and I wont stop! BUT, it did make me go less neurotic, so now it is just the girls FIRST initial on their lot of socks and no more numbers R-1 R-1, R-2 R-2, R-3 R-3.... Now were down to just "R" I could certainly go oerboard with organization if I could, BUT it is supposed to help add time to my life and the numbers added a short time to the sorting by trying to find the number match... It works for me, and I had to share my little sock trick ;)
1- bag of new socks (ahh, nothing better ;)
2- sharpie
3- label on bottom under toe so nothing shows when they are walking in them or in a show.
4- wah- lah, enjoy the extra time you wont spend laying out a million little white socks doing the size up game ;)

Friday, July 9, 2010

It's a small small Military world out there!


SOOO, today was a military COC (Change of Comand) I attended. I wanted to meet some military friends and support the new commander coming in, also my stud military man was a part of the ceremony.... Lets not mention I was late because it was so dripping hot out, I knew my middle lady would litterally have a melt down, so we waited and attended the.... well, lets just call it the "after party", yeah that's how we roll, lol. I mingled and chatted and met some ladies, got all signed up for some contacts, some hopefull friends in sight I think and low and behold, one of my close friends who lives far away, HER FRIEND, who I have seen for YEARS in scrape books, so I flet I knew her, was there, and NOW I am officially in the cool girls club! lol, yep, I made some friend contacts people!!! And I already know they are solid, so look what a little complaining and patience gets me! Look out world, I may find a mommy friend play date soon!!! WOOO HOOOO!!!!!

Speaking of new cothes

I had to post this picture because in my last post I wrote about my relatives being of dairy farming roots (this is not my relative) But take a long look at this picture... It annoys me. She has dishes piled next to the sink, she does not look like she is perfectly put together, she looks like she has been working, like a normal woman would look, I am annoyed because why is it we feel pressured to look good while we do the same jobs as our ancestors did? It is hard work to raise a family, we work our butts off and it is crazy to put more stress on ourselves. I mean if you google the 1950's, 40's, 30's house wife, you will see perfect woman in the kitchen in aprons, but the truth is those images are the only ones that made it in magazines, advertising or posing for a rare picture, not everyone had a camera in those days... But in reality, they had on their Sunday best and lip stick, it is not reality, in reality they dressed to work their butts off on a daily basis, and the house was not always perfect. Woman went throught heir husbands working long hours or being gone for war, they went through financial turmoil, are there parallels there, absolutely... I'm sure there was a little preassure to look good, but they only worried about that on Sunday... I made a post of this, and I truley dont wear makeup, I dont "do" my hair and I dont get dressed up on a regular basis, what you see is what you get, I will throw on a jacket, sunglasses, lip gloss and that is me getting ready.... I just hope my 3 girls are not sucked into this false vicious quest for perfection... It's BS, just like a clean house. I admit, my house is ubber organized, I love that, but it is clean when I clean it, and dirty the second my children walk in the door with their muddy feet and terrorizing ways. Then the cycle begins again... I dont want my girls to have a horrible house, of course not, but I also want them to be ok with a dish in the sink or a shirt in the laundry... Maybe the problem is I bought into it, and that is really what annoys me, I see it's not rational to be in a race witht hings that pile up, maybe if I can come to gripes with this, it will teach the girls much better than anyhting I could say, leading by example...

Organic cheat sheet

I'm noone's mother here but my three little ladies, so no lecture attached, I'll save that for them later on down the road. If anyone is interested in buying organically, I say this is a great cheat sheet to follow, on the left are produce to buy always organically on the right side, low pesticides... My rule is to try and follow this, it is hard when J is home, he battles me on everything, so this issue is no exception and also some places dont have the best selections of things... I also say ALWAYS buy milk with no added growth hormones... Organic is great too, but for me it's important just to make sure the meat and dairy you consume has no added growth hormones, they are good news for those who make money at that business, but in my opinion, bad for our bodies... Many people will argue this fact and it may just be me being cautious, but seriously, they used to give preganant woman drugs they said were ok, and then they said they caused birth defects.... It is a slippery slope for me I dont want to go down to argue the point of a dollar or two....
I will attach an article that debates the milk thing a little by Anderson Cooper, just so you know I'm really not trying to push my opinion on someone, I say make your own, but that's just what I try to do. I come from a line of dairy farmers from the old country who moved to Wisconsin and had a huge successful dairy farm... also my more recent relatives raised their own cows and milked them. All of them fresh organic milk because that is the way it had been done back in the day, so they raised them in the way of tradition, why are we leaping into this phase of hormones... (ok, ok, off the soap box ;)

http://ac360.blogs.cnn.com/2008/04/09/got-milk-got-hormones-got-a-problem-with-that/

( I skimmed the article first, pun intended, and just now read the full article, so any parallels were coincidence, but it's funny I do feel that way)

Over the hills, "HILLS"


I cant help but be in love with this outfit... I love to get dressed up on Occasion, but on a daily basis, I am cooking and cleaning and running errands, I think this is perfect to wear jeans and a white t-shirt and then throw on an amazing jacket to go out and about or drinks with friends or date night, I love it.... J, on the other hand says you have to be a size zero, which I am not, to wear this outfit.... Oh well, I will dream a little.... So then maybe I dont get the jeans targeted at 18 year olds, but made to fit 12 years olds, the butt crack jeans with the amazing built in booty support... I've heard about jeans called "Not your daughters jeans" but those look too old, isnt there something in between new and old? It's not really the pants that pull this outfit off, it's the cool jacket.... So while we are going through a heat wave, I am preparing for the cool fall months already! lol, doesnt anyone else do that? You get so much of a better deal to buy jeans and jackets when the days are scorching.... Anyhow, I will keep you posted if I can modify this outfit and not look like I'm trying to be the next over the hills "HILLS" girl! lol!

Thursday, July 8, 2010

R. Lee Ermey Geico Commerical

Ok, Ok, I'll stop complaining about not having a friend here yet! LOL!!